"12:30 pm, March 5th, 06 I felt the baby being pulled out of me" "I was left alone while they put me back together and stitched my uterus closed" "I was in recovery, I reached down and felt my tummy . It was empty. I was empty. I had no baby in me and no baby in my arms. I felt so numb"
"I want to push my baby out next time"
"I was so tired after pushing for 3 hours and my baby was not dropping despite everything we tried. I was relieved when they said cesareanI learned after the babys turned transverse and there wasn't anyway he could come out the way he was. Hopefully next time my baby will keep its head straight"
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The best recovery possible: Recovering from a Cesarean: Tips on Healing
(Reviewed and approved
by Dr. Joyce Barrett, MD, from the ICAN Advisory Board)
Congratulations on the birth of your baby! While this is
an exciting time for you and your family, a cesarean is major surgery
and you may be feeling sore and tired. New mothers like you need and
deserve extra support during this special time of birth and healing.
Women who have experienced either a planned or an unplanned cesarean
respond to the surgery in very different ways. Physically, some women
heal very quickly while others report that recovery took weeks or
months. Women’s feelings about their cesareans range from happiness to
depression. Each woman heals and grows into her new role of mother at
her own pace and it is important not to put time limits on this process.
Healing in the hospital:
- Ask for assistance when you need it and keep the nurse’s call button
within easy reach.
- If possible, obtain a private room so that a family member may
remain with you.
- Take pain medication as needed for comfort. Many mothers have found
that narcotics (like codeine) can manage pain very well but can also
cause constipation. Ask your doctor about using a stool softener.
- Use pillows to support your stomach when turning, standing,
coughing, and nursing.
- Rest as much as possible and limit visitors. Sleep when the baby
sleeps.
- When you are ready, take short walks to prevent blood clots. If you
cannot walk have someone massage your legs and ankles in bed, and keep
your feet raised on a pillow. Also consider using medical support leg
hose to prevent clotting if you cannot move or have to travel within six
weeks of the cesarean.
- Eat healthy food and drink plenty of fluids. Avoid soda and drinking
with a straw since that can make you swallow air and cause gas.
- Remember to urinate at least every 3 to 4 hours. This helps avoid or
reduce the bladder pain that some mothers have after the surgery.
- If you are planning to breastfeed, talk to your nurse or a lactation
consultant about positioning that will be comfortable around your
incision. While some women experience a delay in their breast milk
production after a cesarean, extra support will help you get a good
start.
Healing at home:
- Take care of yourself and your baby only.
- Remember not to lift anything heavier than your baby for four to six
weeks after surgery.
- Have a list of tasks ready for when people offer to help and don’t
be shy to ask people for help.
- Let others do household chores like cooking, cleaning, and laundry.
Have frozen meals prepared.
- If you have other children, ask a family member or friend to help
you with their daily routine.
- Consider enlisting the help of a postpartum doula or other support
person for your recovery.
- Have several diapering areas so you can change your baby easily.
- Clothe yourself based on what you need. Staying in your pajamas can
remind people that you are still recovering from birth and need extra
help. On the other hand, taking a shower and getting dressed can help
you feel refreshed and recharged.
- Keep the baby near you at night so you do not have to get up.
- Fill a basket full of little useful things that you can carry with
you. Items can include healthy snacks, your medications, a book, lotion,
or a cordless phone.
- Eat well and drink plenty of fluids. Have a pitcher of water or
juice near you.
- Increase activity slowly.
Call your doctor if you have any of the following symptoms:
- Any bleeding in your incision. It can mean the surgical stitches
have separated.
- Unrelieved pain, or if the pain has increased.
- Pus, leaking, redness and swelling in your incision, which can
indicate an infection.
- A fever can also suggest an infection, most likely in your incision.
- Pain or cramping in your arms or legs that will not go away is a
serious symptom and can suggest the presence of a blood clot. Other
symptoms can include sudden swelling in the arm or leg, red or
discolored skin, and skin that is warm to the touch.
- Continuous headaches, dizziness or back pain could suggest
after-effects of the anesthesia used during surgery.
- Symptoms of postpartum depression can include tearfulness, anxiety,
appetite changes, sleep problems, extreme fatigue, and difficulty
focusing your thoughts, among others.
Long-term healing:
- Keep your baby near you as much as possible.
- Vitamin E capsules can improve the skin on the cesarean scar. Wait
until the scar has healed, open a capsule, pour the oil on the scar and
rub slowly.
- Share your feelings with others who understand how you feel and talk
about your experience as much as you feel necessary.
- Write the story of your experience, with as much detail as possible.
- Seek support from available resources including breastfeeding,
parenting, and cesarean support groups like ICAN. Look for an ICAN
chapter near you or join the online ICAN community.
© International Cesarean Awareness Network, Inc. All Rights Reserved
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"I always dreamed I would have a natural birth but during labor when the heart rate kept dropping I was grateful that she was born that way."
"Dear My Sweet Baby, No matter how you came into this world your Daddy and I made you with the most intimate love and you are the most amazing blessing we could ever receive"
"I've had two cesareans and am not sure if I should try for a natural birth or schedule a repeat cesarean. I have risks either way."
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